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<title>Happy "Vente", Mall Diva!</title>
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<dc:date>2008-08-18T18:08+00:00</dc:date>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="/files/thenightwriterblog-vente.jpg" width="264" height="320" style="float: right; margin: 4px;" alt=""> <br />
Hat's off to the Mall Diva, who turns 20 today. Would it be too cliché for me to complain of how quickly the time goes? Yes. Will I do it anyway? Of course. <br />
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Not that it would do any good. Holding back time and holding back the Mall Diva are equally impossible, both physically and metaphysically. Even now she's getting away from me. Plans are proceeding for the wedding next May where I'll officially "give her away". The trick will be to "walk" her up the aisle when she'd rather sprint. We're thinking the reception will be in our back yard, which means that Ben will have to hold off on delivering the 40-cow bride price until after the wedding so there'll be room. Don't worry, I think he's good for it.  <br />
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"The kids" went up to Alexandria for the weekend so Ben could formally introduce his fiancée to his parents. They've spent some time with her already over the past couple of years, but this is their first "engaged" visit. Some details from the trip are posted <a href="http://hammerswing75.blogspot.com/2008/08/at-fair.html">here</a>. <br />
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Speaking of time flying by, it was three years ago that I posted my first blogging birthday wishes to the Diva, along with some of the story about her birth and childhood. You can read the account and see the photos <a href="http://thenightwriterblog.powerblogs.com/posts/1124381562.shtml">here</a>. ]]></content:encoded>
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<title>Foam, foam on the range</title>
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<dc:date>2008-08-14T18:08+00:00</dc:date>
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<img src="/files/thenightwriterblog-latte_art.bmp" width="250" height="194" style="float: right; margin: 4px;" alt="">Our favorite coffee shop is <a href="http://www.blacksheepcoffeecafe.com/">The Black Sheep </a>in South St. Paul where owner (and my official 50th birthday barista) Peter first wowed my wife with an awesome and unexpected leaf design worked into the foam of her latte. It was an impressive demonstration well beyond my own bag of tricks for catering to my wife, but I didn't feel threatened. <br />
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After all, Peter may draw pictures in her coffee at his shop, but I'm still the guy who can bring it to her in bed. That division works well for me and having a local <i>artiste </i>nearby makes going out for a coffee a little more special. The pressure on me may be growing, however. <br />
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An article in today's <a href="http://online.wsj.com/article_print/SB121867495752039089.html">Wall Street Journal </a>(subscription required) suggests that time and money are no obstacle for those who want to create such foamy, temporary masterpieces in their own home. <br />
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Once an obscure skill practiced by a handful of baristas, latte art is invading the home. Amateur artists have posted thousands of photos and videos of leaves, flowers and swans made in foam, on Web sites like YouTube, Rate My Rosetta and CoffeeGeek.<br />
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Coffee shops offer classes in creating designs, and latte artists organize winner-take-all cash contests, or "throw downs," in which amateurs challenge each other, as well as local professionals. Espresso-machine vendors are doing a brisk business in special pitchers and custom steam tips that are affixed to machines to aid milk frothing. One online retailer says sales of its $79 "Latte Art Beginner's Pack," with instructional DVD, frothing pitcher and milk thermometer, are up 65% this year.<br />
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The pastime is not for those with weak wills -- or shallow pockets. High-end home espresso machines sell for as much as $7,000. Beginners can go through multiple gallons of milk a week as they practice.<br />
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Oh, great, so I need time, talent, money ... and, apparently, a lot of milk. <br />
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Some aspiring artists concentrate on the pour. First-timers mistakenly think they can paint the design on top of the coffee, says Nicholas Lundgaard, a 23-year-old software engineer in Houston, who took up latte art three years ago after seeing photos on the CoffeeGeek Web site. Actually, it's "a fluid canvas, where shapes fan out from the place you're pouring," he says.<br />
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Mr. Lundgaard spent evenings hunched over his espresso machine, studying exemplars on YouTube and rehearsing his "wiggle," the back and forth motion of the hand pouring milk. To avoid wasting costly milk, Mr. Lundgaard practiced with water, switching to milk every now and then to gauge his progress.<br />
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Another foam artist, Milwaukee pathologist Robert Hall, says he had to pour five or six drinks a day for a year before he could get a rosetta right every time. One big obstacle was his wife's preference for skim milk, which produces stiffer, less yielding foam than milk with lots of fat, he says.<br />
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Check that ... I need time, talent, money, a lot of milk ... and I have to work on my "wiggle." Isn't there an easier way? Well, it turns out that there is. <br />
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Not everyone wants to suffer for their art. After seeing a latte-art video, Oleksiy Pikalo, a 31-year-old electrical engineer from Somerville, Mass., decided there had to be an "engineering approach." Using a kit and spare parts found on eBay, he built a programmable computer printer that stamps designs -- such as words or corporate logos -- on foamed drinks in edible brown ink. One design shows a kingly figure saying, "Can your latte do this?"<br />
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Mr. Pikalo presented his invention at a national computer-graphics conference this week and has started a company, OnLatte, to sell his machine, at a tentative price of $1,500. His YouTube video has drawn more than 818,000 views and 2,500 comments.<br />
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A latte printer? Really, the things you can do with spare parts found on eBay! It kind of sounds like the coffee-blogging answer to Twitter. Click <a href="http://link.brightcove.com/services/link/bcpid452319854/bctid1716487960">here </a>to watch a neat video of the craft and a demonstration of the latte printer. <br />
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<title>What a Dad's to do</title>
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<description>When my oldest daughter was born, nigh on 20 years ago, they put that tiny little bundle in my arms &amp;mdash; arms that had, just a few hours earlier, been lifting...</description>
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<dc:date>2008-07-31T23:07+00:00</dc:date>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[When my oldest daughter was born, nigh on 20 years ago, they put that tiny little bundle in my arms &mdash; arms that had, just a few hours earlier, been lifting furniture and heavy equipment in the delivery room as I tried to vent my anxiety and frustration. The contrast between the weight of those items and her seven measly pounds belied the heavy but invisible mantle that had just been laid across my shoulders. <br />
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Our pastor knocked and came into the room about that time and I turned my daughter toward him and said, "Now Faith is" &mdash; as in "Now faith is the substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things not seen" (Heb. 11:1). Our little miracle baby, Faith Christine, was amongst us and I had just taken up my first watch. <br />
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I thought of this the other day as Ben made his case for how much he admired Faith and, in exchange for my blessing, gave his personal promise to safeguard her heart and well-being, to support her physically, emotionally and spiritually, and to raise my grandchildren in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. <br />
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I know there are a few people &mdash; well, probably many &mdash; who question the need or propriety of a would-be husband these days asking his prospective father-in-law for the daughter's hand in marriage. "Women aren't chattel to be passed from one patriarch to another!", or "Doesn't <i>she</i> have a say in the matter?", or "What right does Dad have to get in-between young lovers?" Some of the more perceptive might even ask, "Why isn't he asking both the father <i>and</i> the mother?"<br />
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To me it's all part and parcel of a culture that has grown accustomed to demeaning and diminishing the role of parents, going back to the days when we started saying "Don't trust anyone over 30," the presentation of adults (especially dads) as dolts on "family" sit-coms and the cultural and educational conceit that young people are wiser and more informed about "how things really are" than those stick-in-the-mud old folks. As a result we miss, or become uncertain about, certain nuances. <br />
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Now, I enjoy playing the role of patriarch and benevolent dictator, but that is because I take it seriously and have not shirked the robe that comes with it. It fits. I have not viewed my daughters as my property to be maximized for the greatest return on investment, or as servants and dependents sent for my own amusement. My wife and I have always realized that we were not owners, but stewards, of what we were entrusted with and we structured our lives and our daughters' with an eye to providing the things that prepare them for long-term happiness (especially how they can get this themselves), even if it involved some not-so-happy decisions. <br />
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I have to say we are well-pleased with the results to date. Yes, Faith is well able to direct her own life, but every woman needs a man in her life who knows her value and is willing to sacrifice for her well-being. Before I cede that position to another I want to be darn sure he knows what is expected. <br />
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Ben may not be perfect (he's got some dents where the University of Hard Knocks has deposited wisdom), but the situation has been nearly ideal. They've known each other for almost three years and have progressed gradually from acquaintance to friendship to courtship and now engagement. While they have not been physical, they have been intimate, taking the opportunity to really know each other and weigh their respective characters.  Similarly, our family has had the same amount of time (actually, longer) to get to know Ben and make our own evaluation. This isn't some shaggy freak Faith has drug home from a concert and asked if she can keep him. <br />
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So, while my stewardship is not yet finished, its days are clearly numbered. The promised land my daughter and I have been preparing for for so many years is at last on the horizon though, like Moses, I will not cross with her. She will always be my daughter, but then I will have something even better. A friend. <br />
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Two, actually. <br />
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<title>&lt;i>Le chat&lt;/i> is out of &lt;i>du sac&lt;/i></title>
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<dc:date>2008-07-30T16:07+00:00</dc:date>
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Breaking (actually, "bonding") news over at <a href="http://hammerswing75.blogspot.com/2008/07/further-yet-or-how-to-propose-marriage.html">Hammerswing</a> for all you romantics, or the just plain curious. <br />
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<title>Going back in time with Tiger Lilly</title>
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<dc:creator>The Night Writer</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2008-07-24T18:07+00:00</dc:date>
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I happened to come across a reference the other day to <a href="http://www.connerprairie.org/">Connor Prairie Farm</a>, an historic farm and village near Indianapolis that recreates life circa the 1800s. The setting is authentic, as is the clothing of the staff who each must stay "in character" as they interact with visitors. Seeing the place mentioned again brought back memories, especially one in particular.<br />
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When I was a kid growing up in Indianapolis it seemed as if we had a school field trip out to Connor Prarie every other year. About 10 years ago my family was back visiting in the area and we decided to take the young Mall Diva and Tiger Lilly out to the site for a visit. Tiger Lilly would have been five then, and this was the summer between kindergarten and first grade (she started kindergarten when she was four). <br />
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Her red hair and precociousness have always garnered her a lot of attention, and when we visited the Tailor's shop she was soon in a conversation with the tailor, an older gentleman with long, white hair, wireframe glasses, dressed in breeches and a waistcoat and stitching on some project. After they had talked a bit, TL asked the tailor why he said "thee" and "thou" so much. <br />
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"Because," he said, with a twinkle, "I am a Quaker. Does thou know what a Quaker is?" <br />
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"Oh, yes," was the reply. "Last year in school we read a book about Benjamin West and his cat Grimalkin!" TL went on to talk about how  Benjamin West was a Quaker and wanted to be a painter, but the Quakers didn't think painting was proper but he did it anyway and became America's first great painter. <br />
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The tailor was quite taken by this unexpected discourse and smiled and said, "Does that tell you how important it is to listen to that small voice inside you?"<br />
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Tiger Lilly cocked her head and gave him a puzzled look for a moment. "You mean <i>GOD</i>?"  <br />
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The tailor couldn't hide the surprise and amusement in his face, and shook his head, chuckling. "Thou art a caution!" he said. <br />
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Indeed!<br />
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<title>Nobody expects...the Dad inquisition</title>
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<dc:date>2008-07-19T18:07+00:00</dc:date>
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My chief weapon is surprise...surprise and fear...my <i>two </i>weapons are fear and surprise...and ruthless efficiency. My <i>three </i>weapons are fear, surprise and ruthless efficiency....and coming out of the sun with a squirt bottle full of cold water. Make that my <i>four </i>weapons...oh, never mind. The point is Ben and the Diva weren't expecting it, but they should have been!<br />
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<title>Girl, you know it's true</title>
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<dc:date>2008-07-08T14:07+00:00</dc:date>
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I saw the news today that American Girl is opening a store in the Mall of America, to complement their flagship stores in New York, Chicago and LA and smaller stores in Atlanta and Dallas (the MOA store will be about half the retail space of the flagships). It reminded me of a post I wrote three years ago about a trip to New York my wife and I made with Tiger Lilly. From the "Gotham Blogs" series:<br />
<blockquote>After the museum we're out on the street looking for our next destination. Suddenly my wife grabs my arm and Tiger Lilly gasps audibly and freezes. What? Did some threat get past my radar? My wife directs my attention to the opposite corner of the intersection and I see that we may indeed be in line for a mugging. It's American Girl Place.<br />
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A year ago I had no idea of the marketing volcano that was about to erupt under our feet. Then some black-hearted scoundrel slipped Daughter Two an American Girl catalog - the first one's free, kid - and her life changed. American Girl dolls are a vertically integrated economic powerhouse. The dolls themselves go for nearly $100 a pop, but that’s just the threshold - the dolls represent different eras and ethnicities in American history and most are the stars of one or more books put out by the company and has full line of accessories, not to mention the magazine (catalog) that appears regularly at our house. My daughter and her friends now can recite model numbers, back stories and accessory details with each other the way my friends and I once were able to argue the finer points of a '63 Impala or '67 GTO. <br />
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When Tiger Lilly picked her favorite from the catalog - an American Indian called Kaya - we said that if it was that important to her she would have to earn the money herself. A born entrepreneur she quickly grasped the profit and loss mechanics of a lemon-aid stand and the economic rewards of an untapped market - extra chores - to build liquidity. With a seed loan from Mom she bought lemons and sugar, and with marketing advice from me ("put 'Fresh Squeezed' in big letters on your sign"), along with her natural charm and location, location, location she quickly covered her start-up costs and had money to plow back into her business as well as show a profit. This was repeated a couple of more times, and along with the household moonlighting she soon had the necessary discretionary income to buy her doll.<br />
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And now we were unwittingly across the street from Mordor, I mean, American Girl Place. It was like setting out for Oz and finding Mecca along the way. I looked around and saw a definite flow of young girls, many with dolls in arms and all with parents bobbing in tow, converging on the store from all directions. We were swept up in the current - as if we ever had a choice - and into the store. The store is impressive in both detail and scope, with three floors of merchandise and a restaurant where you can have lunch with your American Girl doll for just $22 per person. If I’m going to spend that much for lunch with a doll, I want to see the doll cook the meal and then serve it and then give me a quote on painting my garage. Nevertheless the store is jammed on every floor and countless cashiers and floor associates are - like everyone else in New York - working hard. Fortunately there were no meltdowns to be observed such as those we'd witnessed at Toys R Us in Times Square the night before, but I did notice a lot of earnest young faces making a case point by point. After Tiger Lilly parted with more of her profits she'd been saving for this trip we went elsewhere for lunch (Kaya would just die if she knew we’d eaten at American Girl Place without her) and then, since it had stopped raining, we went over to the Central Park Zoo. <br />
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We arrive just in time for the Polar Bear feeding and to see another New York career option - bear feeder. At this zoo they feed the Polar Bears by first luring them out of the habitat enclosure and into their dens where they can presumably be locked up. Once that is accomplished a zookeeper enters the habitat and hides buckets of food - fish, apples and some veggies frozen in a block and smeared with peanut butter - in the enclosure. While we’re watching this preparation we speculate that there’s probably some initiation for rookie keepers where, once they’re in the middle of the enclosure with bear chow and an open jar of peanut butter, someone plays a loud recording of a Polar Bear huffing and roaring.</blockquote><br />
Perhaps TL will grace us with a post of her own with her thoughts on the new store.]]></content:encoded>
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<title>Family communication</title>
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<description>The other day I stopped at Cold Stone Creamery and bought a small container of their Ghiradelli chocolate ice cream to share in a little private quality time with my wife....</description>
<dc:creator>The Night Writer</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2008-07-02T14:07+00:00</dc:date>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[The other day I stopped at Cold Stone Creamery and bought a small container of their Ghiradelli chocolate ice cream to share in a little private quality time with my wife. <br />
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Unfortunately, when I got home &mdash; and before any such quality time could  materialize &mdash; I tucked it into the freezer of our kitchen refrigerator. This is an environment generally overstuffed with items that would enthrall an arctic archaeologist analyzing the lifestyle of my family. Hiding a small, innocuous container in there should have been relatively safe. Except. Except that I live in a house with three women and their chocolate-senses started jangling as soon as they all returned and entered the kitchen together. <br />
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Later I went into the freezer and saw that the container and been disturbed. And decimated. There was also a post-it note stuck to it, with large letters in Tiger Lilly's hand-printing: "FOUND YOU!"<br />
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There was only one thing I could do. <br />
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I took the post-it note and in red ink struck a line through the word "found" and replaced it with my own "I WILL FIND" and stuck the note on the freezer door. <br />
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Let me know if you see any of them. <br />
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<title>Scenes from a weekend: how a MOBster celebrates Fathers Day</title>
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<description>This was a very full weekend. It started off with my family getting to meet a new-to-us family member, my grandmother's great-niece (not sure what the proper term is &amp;mdash; 2nd,...</description>
<dc:creator>The Night Writer</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2008-06-16T02:06+00:00</dc:date>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[This was a very full weekend. It started off with my family getting to meet a new-to-us family member, my grandmother's great-niece (not sure what the proper term is &mdash; 2nd, 3rd, 4th-cousin?), and fine young woman named DeShae who is spending the summer in Minneapolis with the Youth Works ministry. This has been a season for meeting extended family, as my wife's cousin from New Mexico has two grown daughters currently in the Twin Cities as well who we've enjoyed having over to the house. We're hoping we can have all these lovely young ladies over at the same time. <br />
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That will be a good-sized group but still small compared to the crowd that turned out for the first annual Father's Day party hosted by <a href="http://www.freedomdogs.com/news-archive-mainmenu-2/bizarre/102-bizarre-and-grab-bag/2917-happy-fathers-day.html">Chief</a>. Besides the opportunity to see many of our MOB friends it gave us the opportunity to give <a href="http://www.eckernet.com/2008/06/happy_birthday_to_me-2.html">Kevin Ecker</a> his birthday present. Somehow or another, Kevin had gotten the crazy idea that my wife had bought him a howitzer. <br />
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Admittedly, that would have been pretty cool, if a bit difficult to gift wrap. Instead my wife had picked up something that made her think of Kevin the moment she set eyes on it. <br />
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Unfortunately we couldn't stay late at the party because we had to head up to to Brainerd Saturday evening in order to be on hand to conduct the chapel service during the opening weekend at the Parker Boy Scout Camp. Instead of staying at the camp we stayed at my brother-in-law's nearby lake cabin. It's quite cozy, but surrounded by hordes of hungry mosquitos. We grabbed our bags from the car and made a mad dash to get inside but a couple of dozen of the little blood-suckers made it in the door with us. It could have been a long night, but my daughters decided it was a suitable time to give me my Father's Day gift: the <a href="http://thenightwriterblog.powerblogs.com/posts/1210819662.shtml">bug bat</a> I had said I wanted a little while back. It looks like a badminton racket, but in place of strings it has wires that you can electrify by pressing a button on the handle. What a fly or a mosquito (or perhaps a parakeet) and <i>ZZZZZTT!</i> &mdash; instant crispy critter. I, of course, got to try it out first and if you think my maniacal glee was a bit effusive you should have heard the Mall Diva and Tiger Lilly! <i>"Hahlo, I am the Mall Diva, you bit my sister. Prepare to die!" </i>I christened (actually, you shouldn't get it wet) the newest addition to our arsenal as "Old Sparky". This morning we again had to run the gauntlet to the car, during which many more skeeters tried to come along for the ride. The Diva was on the job, however!<br />
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The chapel service went great, though we were almost late due to having to take some unexpected detours. The Reverend Mother had planned to do a specific message for this morning, but with the news of the scout camp in Iowa getting hit by a tornado last week (killing four scouts), she decided on a different approach, including a special song by the Mall Diva. She once again was able to work the flash paper into her short message and it went over famously, as always. Afterwards two of the scouts even came up to us and, in unison, shouted "Best church ever!" <br />
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After that it was time to come home and complete the Father's Day assignment given by the Mayor of the MOB, <a href="http://www.scsuscholars.com/">King Banaian</a>, in his decree, that being to grill meat. Since we know King is a vegetarian, however, we (Ben, the Diva and I) felt we needed to prepare a special course in his honor:<br />
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Finally, it was good that we had so much to do throughout the weekend since it kept me from dwelling too long on the meaning of the holiday. It was the first Father's Day for me without my father, and there were a a few tough moments throughout the weekend when things that happened would remind me of him. I expect this will be an ongoing experience in years to come. There was another first this year as well; I got my first Father's Day card from prospective son-in-law Ben, something I also anticipate more of in the coming years!<br />
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<description>Here's a flashback for Fathers' Day: back when the Mall Diva was 2-3 years old her mom worked second shift and the little diva and I spent a lot of afternoons...</description>
<dc:creator>The Night Writer</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2008-06-13T10:06+00:00</dc:date>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[Here's a flashback for Fathers' Day: back when the Mall Diva was 2-3 years old her mom worked second shift and the little diva and I spent a lot of afternoons and evenings together, often watching Duck Tales and Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles. One of our most favorite things, however, was to watch the Adrian Belew <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TzTl5dj93aE&feature=related">"Oh Daddy"</a> video, which featured Belew's own 11-year-old daughter, Audie, singing and dancing. I'm betting Mall Diva can still sing every word of that song.<BR />
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<a href="http://www.answers.com/topic/adrian-belew?cat=entertainment">Belew </a>is a fabulous musician who has played on some of my favorite songs from Frank Zappa, The Talking Heads and Peter Gabriel. There's no song, however, that will stir my emotions as much as "Oh Daddy."<BR />
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